5 Tips On How To Score The Perfect Date

No matter what anyone says, online dating can be very daunting. With more and more people doing it every day, there is now an overwhelming number of apps and endless potential matches on there, so how do you stand out from the rest? We have put together 5 tips on how you can score the perfect date, so get a pencil and take notes.

Best Tips For The Perfect Date

1. Profile Pic

Having the perfect profile picture that represents who you are is vital, don’t try to be someone you’re not. Research conducted by the dating platform Zoosk suggests that having a dog in your profile may increase your inbound messages by a whopping +265%. So if you have a dog, use it to your advantage and take a cute photo with it. If you find it difficult to get your puppy looking its cutest, then try the Pawfie. It is a genius invention for those wanting to get the perfect picture of their pets, as we all know, getting your dog to look at the camera can be a challenge.

2. Stay true to yourself

It’s simple, be yourself and don’t try to overly impress your date. If this person doesn’t like you for who you are then they’re not the person for you. You are absolutely good enough for your date or for anyone else. If you’re timid, it’s OK to be shy. If you like to chat, it’s more than fine to be chatty. In terms of your dating profile, it’s also important to not make yourself look like someone else. Don’t enhance abs you don’t have, or take away a few smile lines because, at the end of the day, you can’t hide those things in real life, so why do it now?

3. Don’t talk about past relationships

While it may feel like you want to get to know every detail about the person you are dating, some things are best left unsaid. A relationship doesn’t always have to be a completely open book, discussing stories about your previous relationship or habits in your ex-boyfriend don’t need to be discussed and can be left unsaid. Everyone has a past and it’s important to know about someone’s past to a certain extent, if you think your date would enjoy the story or learn something important by hearing it, then go for it. But if they’d just be upset or uncomfortable, definitely keep it to yourself.

4. Don’t take it too seriously

The first date can be very daunting and is almost like walking into the unknown. However, it’s important to keep calm and to not take the date too seriously, keep it light-hearted. Keep the conversation light and not too heavy about topics that might heat things up too much. Maybe try telling a funny story that happened to you recently or a joke, to break the ice.

5. Pick a good spot

Go somewhere you can actually talk, going to a movie on your first date is a deal-breaker. You’re not getting to know the other person properly and let’s face it, it’s just a bit boring, this can be for date 7 or 8. It’s also important to go somewhere you can actually talk and hear each other, again, going to a club on a first date can be a bit inappropriate. Try a picnic, dinner at your favourite restaurant or even a walk, this way you have the opportunity to get to know each other.